I don’t wanna put that ointment mumma :-(

Sam has a small blister on her upper gum. SHe usually gets one off and on and cries like hell on applying the ointment. Now its no more easy to catch hold of her to be able to apply the same. Today morning when I was combing her hair for her summer camp, she again tells me -” Mumma it pains here when I brush.”

Hmmm….see Sam, dentist uncle has given us an ointment…. but before I could complete…

I don’t wanna put that ointment Mumma…I will not.

Okay then, it will get healed by itself.

But do na something Mumma.

See, I am just telling you that if you let me apply that ointment , this will hurt much less and get healed much sooner, and if you don’t, then too this will heal by itself but will take much longer.

“Mumma, ab ap CHALAAKIBAAZI wale dialogue bolke mujhe manane ki koshish mat karo. Main vo davai bilkul bhi nahi lagaungi…apni life mei kabhi bhi nahi lagaungi chahe ap kuch bhi bolo.”

LOL…

The Story…

Today I’ll share a story… story of a boy… story of a man…a man of passion and pride… a man of who pulled life to his side. He was one of the naughtiest boys on earth, who would make others go crazy with his mischiefs, never leaving a trail behind ;-) . Unlike many of us privileged children here, he was brought up in many unfavourable conditions. Life kept testing and trying him every now and then. When we would insist for a pepsi from our parents, he would help his fill gallons. Unlike us who would peacefully sleep even when electricity went off, he lived without the same for years. Unlike us who insist our parents for gifts or luxuries or simple desires, he would plan what to do to assist them better.

Unlike those, who crib about their life and curse their fortune to be misfortune, he always took the same as a reason to boost him move ahead in life. He would not fill slam books at the year end in his teenage, but would keep his diary record with plans to begin learning and earning. I take pride in talking of him, UNLIKE those who mocked at him all those years. How great was his passion towards life that never could his peer group or the society discourage him or bring down his moral and stop him from thinking positive, trying, smiling, being happy and being naughty :-) He who always was humble enough to accept what he was lacking in and had always been ready to learn, learn from just anyone, anytime, UNLIKE, many of us. When in our early adulthood, we plan and change our plans endless times, he too did the same, the purpose and the way being different. He would study, go for 3 jobs a day, support his family, at the same time save…save to build a house, save for his and siblings studies and safe future, save for the weddings, save for the social commitments save …save to be able to MOCK back at those who mocked at him some fine day. He, who never was revengous towards anybody, but used everything within his mind to push him further. He who made and changed plans, UNLIKE…., not filling forms for big institutes or sitting for entrances. His plans made him learn to be a plumber, an electrician, servicing at shops, painting refridgerators, repairing gadgets, big and small, getting trained as a mechanic…what was he hunting?!! NOTHING !!

He was just learning, to make himself efficient at everything so that never comes a time when life can close doors at him. He had the strength and passion to challenge life, that life, that kept testing and trying him. He kept learning and studying, side by side, filling his hands with experience and his portfolio with certificates and earning along with. As I have always heard, he would never say, ‘No, I don’t know this job.” He would never want to miss any chance. He would say YES and would learn and work side by side and complete the job. Beginning his professional career, which at that time he too was not aware would be his loved work, a student of a known name in computer learning, would guide his junior batch. When one fine day, on a required day, the instructor unavailable and this boy comes up and takes the responsibility to teach the junior batch, the lesson of the day. That day and there was no looking back. He was a student and a teacher at the same institute. Doors opened to him as a computer operator at the age of 16, as I remember. I would not have really believed on everything I kept hearing until I met that man. The man,in his late 50′s now, a rich established man. One fine day, when the boy of our story, who was now in his 30′s, got the very old contact of that man whom he served as a computer operator at the age of 16. I met that man and I was amazed to see his behaviour, how he talked of those past years, how he remembered each and everything about that boy. He shared how that boy happened to become his favourite and finally manage his entire team, how that boy set up all the hardwares and softwares, how that boy taught his daughter who was earning in lakhs today :-) How that man blessed him, our story man!

Moving ahead in life, studying and working, smiling at each new day, our boy was now 20+ and into an international name as a team member. Still with responsibilities upon him, he made new friends and also faced a lot of criticism and mockery, but nothing could shatter his strength and will power.They say “God helps those who help themselves.”, and this man is a real time example of the same. Not opening much pages of his life, I would never be tired or fall short of words to speak of him though :-) , he today stands as a perfect professional with many talents, a perfect son, a perfect brother, a perfect father, a perfect MAN, MY MAN!! One who knows what sacrifice, compromise and adjustment means, one who can define the thin line of difference between these.

And today, on his birthday, I again thank the Lord for choosing me to be the blessed one, the one whom he would love with all his heart and soul. Happy birthday sweetheart. I am nothing without you :-) Love you.

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Baby’s day out…

I remember the day..Sam was almost 4+ and always had been very attached to her masi(chhoti mumma) and mamu. ANd both of them equally fond of her. Mamu loves to date Sammie!! It were her holidays and masi wanted her to come over for a stay and Sam was so excited about it. There we pack her bag and off to masi’s place. We have dinner and are bidding goodbye to her and she gets so emotional – “Mumma, you stay with me na.” Masi mausu take her out for an icecream and while she’s busy chosing hers, Mumpa leave, assuming that she’ll be fine if we leave just like that. Just after another 5 minutes at 10.30 in the night, I get a call -”Didi, she’s crying like hell and is not entering the house!!” And we rush back to get her back. She takes a sigh of relief and keeps sobbing and feeling sorry. We start to move back home with her, leaving masi’s eyes filled with tears :-(

After that day, we weren’t ever sure she would stay without us until after another year, she insisted to go to nani house to stay with mamu over the weekend. Nani’s house is closeby, we can get her back…just in case, Me and her papa thought and we pack her bag, once again. The weekend goes awesome for her, mamu takes her out, plays with her, fights with her and would not let anyone scold her. That I think was the beginning but just till nani house with mamu. Another visit to nani house with mamu and masi there, without Mumma.

She is 6+ now and has begun with her summer vacations. Masi messages one fine day,-”we are going to Chandigarh for 3 days, why don’t you send Sam along?!” And my mind has so many question marks…out of station…for 3 days..will she stay…she has never been so far away without me…what if half way she gets cranky..what if!!!! So, I put down the idea and tell my Sis that she would come over for a stay at her place during the vacations, not out of town without me. A simple discussion at lunch a day in advance and Sam just wants to go. “Mumma I am a big girl…I’ll be fine. Let me go please. I wanna go with Mysha.”  Whole day long I kept asking her, telling her that she would miss her friend’s bday party and first 2 days of her summer camp…but she just so wanted to go. That evening, May 13th 2013…we once again reach her masi’s place with her packed bag and all throughout, indirectly we kept saying Sam is getting back home and she would come and whisper in my ears – “Mumma you are not taking me back na? I wanna go with them.” We had that night, Sam staying at masi’s place and if she is not fine, we shall get her back early morning before they leave for Chandigarh.

Masi messages at 12 in night that Sam is fine and sleeping tight :-) Next morning, today, May 14th, I receive a call from my sweety-”Mumma I am in the car with mausu masi and mishki.”

Baby are you  having fun?

Yes Mumma, bot maza aa raha hai..

Baby you wanna go ahead or shall we come and take you back?

No mumma, I wanna go.

Yesssss….. touchwood!!! lol

So here begins a new turn in her and our lives, Baby’s day out without mumpa :-)

I did feel the emptiness driving back that night, during the night and the morning…but then, my doll is growing. We want her to be confident, independent, social with numerous other thoughts in our minds:-)

Love you Samysha!!!

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Mumma ko kaise patao !!

Sam from within is a makhanbaaz kid ;-) . She can well pamper anyone specially Mumma with her mighty lovely buttery dialogues which sound aww so sweet even if we know her motive … lol. Yesterday we took Sam for a surprise movie – The Croods 3D and she really was excited all throughout, so much that we were afraid some other person would ask us to make her relax…hahaha. later too she was equally happy. One more thing she enjoys with us is the Metro Travel and she got that too yesterday. Kissing our hands while walking and thanking us again and again made us soooo very happy. Back home, time to sleep, its school tomorrow and you are already late but Sam is up with her own things. Some shot that she happens to repeat again and again after several reminders, and Mumma had to raise her voice and this brings out the cranky and emotional dramatic Sam !! Mumma ap bot bure ho… Isse achha to main ghar hi reh jaati shayad fir sab alag hota aur ap mujhe nahi dant lagate… main kitni khush thi apne mera din bigad diya…mujhe lag hi raha tha mere sath kuch bura hoga…blah blah blah…Mumma and papa smiling at each other ignoring her or talking normally to help her settle down. She was just tired and sleepy.

Bed time… story time… she won’t ask Mumma out of her ego, so she tries Papa…unse ladai thode na hui hai!! Papa answers – jaise apne Mumma se behave kia na apko kabhi story nahi milni chaiye. Sam gets to her bed without a fuss. Thats what usually happens when Papa intervenes, once in a while. Muma is back to the room working here and there and softly asking her to sleep. Sam gets up holds her ears, tip…tip…tip…roll down little dew drop like tears on her softy cheeks – “, I am really very sorry. Mujhe gusse mei pata hi nahi chala maine apko kya kya bol diya. Ap bilkul bure ni ho. I love you Muma.” I look at Papa, he smiles, I smile at her and hug her and she bursts into tears. whoa whoa whoa…Okay…its okay…I was not angry and I am not…relax!! And then some sorry conversation and hugs and kisses and when its all done Sam well knows now she can ask Mumma to massage her legs and feet, as usual, to make her sleep :-) Good Night Sweety!!!

That wasn’t all!!! Next morning, she gets up without a fuss again and gives Mumma the usual morning huggy, which she says – “jab main college jitni badi bhi ho jaungi na, tab bhi roz subah apko aake huggy karugi.”

Mumma preparing French toast and Sam sitting beside -Sam would you like to eat one with milk?

No Mumma, my tummy’s full

mmm, mumma it seems to be tasty!!

ahaan?! so you wanna have one now before I pack your tiffin?

no mumma, I just said it will be very tasty.

Ya, may be, you wanna try half?

No mumma, main to bas apko khush karne ke liye bol rahi hun. Abhi mujhe bhukh nahi hai!!!

And the sweet n’ salty stories never end. Touchwood :-)

Awww…I can just sit n watch her play to herself for hours ;-)

Huhmmmm… how I long to be here more often… How I keep storing in my mind what to pour down when I land here and forget by the time I be able to :-( But whatever it is its always about my girl Sam…until the younger one grows up bit more… Mysha ;-)

Sam lately started expressing her NUTKHUT love as a pet. She would pull out her tongue droop her hands beside her ears and come to me n Jass saying “Main to apki pet hu!!” how cute that looks :-) WHat she used to understand as Ramdev Tim-Tim at 9 mths of age is Kapaal-Bhaati for her now, for which she accompanies my evening work-outs…singing and jumping around and at the cross-trainer , she is a good enough disturbance to a panting Me !! Harder its becoming to tame  this pet of ours when it comes to scheduling her days balancing time for play, study, TV…everything because half an hour of study is always – “mumma half hour to bot zada hota hai!!” and an hour of TV is ” aaaaa….abhi abhi to start hua hai ye…” lol..Huhmm…all kids are alike.DSC07206

And when it comes to dressing, again this is not good that is not good. Although she would not insist in such a way that I can’t manage or convince her…but for anything I try to give her reason and finally tell her “Its a NO bcos mumma says so…no more arguments!!” and she would come with that poor pussy cat face and eyes filled with tears -” mumma ap hi to bolte ho jo mann mei ho bol diya karo…share kiya karo muma papa se…ab dant rahe ho” God knows when will I be able to make her understand the difference between being adamant while using the word Please endless times and annoying me and REQUESTING!!

She’s gonna be a cosmo freak ;-) in love with cosmetics, make-ups and styles…not sure but may be a lazy one though. She gives us doubts to her activeness when seen during playtime and otherwise on instructions…lol.

I reminded myself of a word she spoke twice thrice – ismei mera kya hujoor hai… hahaha… meaning ismei mera kya kusoor hai ;-) SHe is developing her very own tastes, thoughts about right and wrong, decisiveness and we try our best not to curb any whilst parenting… SHe is now a DIDI afterall, badi ho gai hai vo didi banke :-) And the way she talks to her dolls and plays with them…her quiet play time is just cho chweet..I can see her trying to follow me filtering by her own choice…hahaha

Love you Sammie…have much more to write but no more time :-( (

Sam is 6 :-)

With her 6th b’day, so many new things have been coming up. The very first Mysha and Sam must be seen handling her, so sweetly and responsibly, although yes …at times she gets overexcited to see her smile or annoyed at why she sleeps so much…hahaha. Her session break brings up a new young girl in her who helps her mom serve food to all, attend to the guests, clear up the table and even empty her drawers and clean them up :-) Hey, not to forget, she has begun bathing by herself. That’s such an achievement !!! Awww…i love her so much :-)

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As are advancing her soft skills, so are her vocabulary skills…her one liners and emotional dialogues….much thanks to NOBHITA, ohh  how I hate that cartoon…and then she herself tells..I wanna get rid of my yelling and crying and biting nails mumma..and I take glimpses of her infancy and toddlerhood with my eyes closed and with my eyes open as Mysha..